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    To put it bluntly, I’m sick of hearing or seeing Chris Brown. He’s a BITCH and a COWARD. And now he has the AUDACITY to complain about Rhianna going on 20/20 and talking about the night he BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF HER ! It is OBVIOUS that he still hasn’t learned a DAMN THING from this incident and still thinks the world revolves around him. It is OBVIOUS he hasn’t learned a DAMN THING from the Domestic Abuse classes he is supposed to be taking. It is OBVIOUS the so called “spiritual advise he is going to seek” isn’t helping one bit! And it is even MORE OBVIOUS that he is still an abuser. Because by saying that the “incident should stay between us“, he is using the same language and exhibiting the same behavior as an abuser.
     
    Hey, I understand that people make mistakes. And I understand that everyone should be given a second chance. But that chance is only given when that person is TRULY SORRY. I have yet to see any real remorse in any interview he has done. He always looks like the “class nerd” whose lab experiment went ACCIDENTALLY wrong. Like the kid in class who had a “bad idea” and says he will never do it again. All the while, he has his fingers crossed behind his back. He sounds like Eddie Haskell from the “Leave it to Beaver show” talking to Mrs. Cleaver and telling her “what a pretty dress she has on.” Even when he is giving her praise, you always think there is “something under his sleeve! Almost every word looks like he has been standing in front of a mirror saying it over and over again. Practicing the right inflection in his voice. The right pause or eyebrow raise. All those interviews seem to happen to try and rehabilitate his reputation. And not what is should be. To take full ownership of what he has done!
     
    And now he is saying what happened that night should stay between him and Rhianna. WHY? So HE won’t look bad? So he can get his “life back?” And his donation of concert proceeds to Domestic Abuse Centers seems hollow and another way to make himself look good. If he wouldn’t have put his hands on Rhianna in the first place, none of his problems would have happened. He is almost trying to make it sound like HE is the VICTIM! But it isn’t working.
    Continue reading “Gee you look swell Mrs. Cleaver!” »


      Political LOUD MOUTH Bill O’reilly recently stated that the late Michael Jackson was not a “Black Icon.” His reasoning was that while MJ talked about saving the world, “he spent money lavishly” and that should make any clear thinking American “nauseous.” Since when did o’reilly, lower caps on purpose, become the the arbiter of ANYTHING BLACK?
       
      I can remember getting up on Saturday mornings and while eating my bowl of Captain Crunch cereal, watching the Jackson Five cartoons. And after going through one of their adventures, they would usually sing one of their hits. Which could be considered one of the first “music videos.” At that time, the early 70′s, there were very few shows that featured African Americans of any age. For a Black show to be on tv at all was an event. And the Jackson Five cartoon was on EVERY SATURDAY! And it aired on the network channel so everyone was watching it. That in itself is iconic!
       
      For people of a certain age who were in high school when MTV first came along, we remember watching the channel and seeing few African American artists. And when we did see them, it was usually after 10:00pm. Initially, MTV refused to even run videos by African American artists. It was Michael who broke the “MTV color line” and whose videos aired on MTV hourly! And don’t think for a minute that MTV “made” Michael. He was a star long before MTV came along. MTV brought Jackson into the homes of white teenagers and reminded their parents of the talented performer they grew up listening to and whose cartoon they had watched! I wonder how many kids rode with their listening to Mike? How many parents were able to start a dialog with their kids on important issues, that began by having a mutual like for Michael Jackson’s music? Did MTV create an icon? NO! MTV rode on the coattails of an icon. And that icon is named Michael Jackson!
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      Apr
      02

        Madonna is at it again. She is again attempting to adopt a child from the African Country of Malawi. This time she is going to adopt a girl. While the press is turning back flips over this event, the Black folks in America could care less. Because for most of us, Madonna stopped being relevant over a decade ago! The props she once had in our community evaporated, at least for me, back in 1996 when in a Spin magazine article, she said that she was treated worse by Black men than any other man. That Black women just accept it, that it’s a cultural thing, essentially Black people ain’t shit!
         
        In the Spin Magazine article, she vacillates between saying things like “Blacks were/are treated badly” to things like she was surprised by how badly some Black people treat her because “she is a minority too!” A white woman is a minority. Yeah, ok if YOU say so. But I digress. The fact is that early on, most people thought she was Black and she used that to further her career. Then when it was “safe” she dogged Black folks out. And ever since that time frame, most Black folks have stopped paying attention to her. And her career has not been the same since. The media continues to tell us about her every move, but we aren’t buying her cd’s. We aren’t buying tickets to her concerts. Taking off her clothes and “telling the man” what time SHE thinks it is, no longer interests us. She has become irrelevant to us. So her adoption of a young Malawian boy a few years ago and her attempt to adopt a Malawian girl now is being received in the Black community with a collective yawn.
         
        We all know that Madonna is a calculating woman. NOTHING she does is “out of the goodness of her heart.” And her adoptions are being looked at as an attempt to get back into the good graces of Black folks. Not as an attempt to give a Black kid a better opportunity in life. We all hope she is trying to help two young children out, but we are skeptical. We all know better.

        Continue reading “Madonna. Relevant or Irrelevant” »


          DISCLAIMER: Rihanna, even though this picture has been all over everywhere thanks to the GANG MEMBERS WITH BADGES called the LOS ANGELES POLICE DEPARTMENT, I will take this picture down if you asked me to. I apologize baby girl for using it. But I needed to make the point.

          It has recently come out that girlfriend beater, chris brown, is going to claim that he beat the, as my mother used to say, “ Stew Beef” out of Rihanna out of self defense! WTF!!! Talk about a MISERABLE, COWARD PIECE OF SHIT! I’d like to think that his “ handlers” translated as the people celebrities hide behind, are responsible for this idea. Because if brown were to pull that PUNK BITCH ASS move , his career would indeed be DONE! This picture doesn’t lie.

          There is NO WAY this was a “ self defense” situation. For him to again, paraphrasing my mother, “ fix his mouth” to even utter those words is a joke. Let me show you how this should play out in court.

          Continue reading “Brown Rihanna revisited: Oh Bitch, no you Ain’t!” »


            I’m going to start by saying this. I’m not into Hip Hop, New School, or Rap. I’m an Old School head and make no apologies. If you asked me who most of the new school artists were, unless they are or were all over the TV, I couldn’t pick them out of a lineup! So hearing that Chris Brown had beaten up Rihanna, other than the fact that it was a domestic violence situation, didn’t mean much to me. What did get my attention was the fact that he initially denied having done anything!

            I’m a lesbian. So I know that we women can drive you to: drink, use drugs, knock over the neighbors trash cans on trash day, and steal little kids trick or treat bags on Halloween. But that doesn’t give you or anyone else the right to put their hands on them. I don’t know what happened on the night of February 9th, 2009, because I wasn’t there. And I am all for giving people the benefit of the doubt. But Brown’s own words lead me to believe he did indeed put his hands on her.

            On February 16, 2009, a statement by him was made saying that he was “saddened over what had transpired that he was seeking counseling from loved ones, family members … and his pastor.” But this next statement was the one that let me know, without a doubt, that he had indeed put his hands on Rihanna.

            His biological father came out and said his son “very remorseful” over what happened. My first thought was “what is he remorseful for?” If he hadn’t put his hands on her, what was he apologizing for? You don’t apologize if you didn’t do anything. That was as much as an admission of guilt to having done something physical to Rihanna. And if reports are correct that Chris witnessed his step-father beating his mother, than he is an even bigger BITCH than this event proved.

            If he put his hands on her many times before, as her friends have said, his punk bitch ass needs to be locked up for a while. Some people have said they saw bruises on Rihanna as far back as December of 2008. I’m sure a few of the homies might enjoy letting him know what it feels like to have “hands, and other parts” put on him! And as I said before, I’m not into new school, but Jay-Z certainly moved up in my estimation. He has allegedly said that Brown “is a walking dead man.” Kinda reminds me how it used to be in the Black community where we policed ourselves. I’d never advocate violence, but I hope Jay-Z puts the “cutters” on Chris. (If you don’t know what that means, then the comment wasn’t meant for you. It’s just that simple).

            Ok, you are talking all of this shit Tami, what should Chris have done? To be honest with you, if Rihanna was “jaw-jacking” to the point where Chris couldn’t take it anymore, I would have pulled the car over, gotten the hell out, started walking, and left her ass there! Just like your momma use to tell you that she would “put your little ass out of her car,” I wouldn’t have gone that far. I would have put my own ass out of the car. Just that simple!